bronzetalon wrote:It warms my heart that once every couple of months someone will comment on one of my old noise youtube videos about how crappy it is. Like clockwork almost.
Disable the comment function. Or is that a too simple solution?
You misunderstand I don't mind these comments...I find them quite funny actually.
Just came back from the funeral of my first longterm girlfriend and my emotions are all haywire. I feel sad yet I feel all sorts of empty anger. I don't want to go back to my girlfriend because I feel like it's an odd thing for her to comfort me for even if she doesn't say it, I feel as though it affects her. Death is such a weird thing, I've never gone to a funeral but seeing someone so important, lifeless in a casket just hurts and makes me question all the shit I'm doing and whether I should be doing something else.
I guess this is all cliche. She was barely going to be 22, and no one like that deserves dying so early...
Nothing about that is cliche. That sucks, if my ex would die I'd feel terrible. You'll be alright, death is the weirdest, cause you never feel okay about getting over it.
PM me if you want to talk man, I'm here for any fuzzperson
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bronzetalon wrote:It warms my heart that once every couple of months someone will comment on one of my old noise youtube videos about how crappy it is. Like clockwork almost.
Disable the comment function. Or is that a too simple solution?
You misunderstand I don't mind these comments...I find them quite funny actually.
you got links? not to leave rude comments of course
Gunner Recall wrote:This thread is bad and everyone in it should feel bad.
Iommic Pope wrote:This thread is mediocre at best, but I encourage everyone posting in it to feel as awesome as possible.
sergiomunoz74 wrote:Just came back from the funeral of my first longterm girlfriend and my emotions are all haywire. I feel sad yet I feel all sorts of empty anger. I don't want to go back to my girlfriend because I feel like it's an odd thing for her to comfort me for even if she doesn't say it, I feel as though it affects her. Death is such a weird thing, I've never gone to a funeral but seeing someone so important, lifeless in a casket just hurts and makes me question all the shit I'm doing and whether I should be doing something else.
I guess this is all cliche. She was barely going to be 22, and no one like that deserves dying so early...
This fully does suck, nobody should die at 22
And it does make you question everything.
I used to have to officiate funerals for kids and it is the worst possible thing, never easy to get over. At some point you just have to let the emotions hit you
Don't push your existing GF away to grieve there is a respectful way to let her into the process
Gunner Recall wrote:This thread is bad and everyone in it should feel bad.
Iommic Pope wrote:This thread is mediocre at best, but I encourage everyone posting in it to feel as awesome as possible.
I feel like shit today. Part of it is this bloody cold that never quite seems to leave my body (classic winter/working in child care) and my stomach acting up. But really, just. Ugh. Just gonna ride this friggin' day out, I guess. There's another coming tomorrow.
sergiomunoz74 wrote:Just came back from the funeral of my first longterm girlfriend and my emotions are all haywire. I feel sad yet I feel all sorts of empty anger. I don't want to go back to my girlfriend because I feel like it's an odd thing for her to comfort me for even if she doesn't say it, I feel as though it affects her. Death is such a weird thing, I've never gone to a funeral but seeing someone so important, lifeless in a casket just hurts and makes me question all the shit I'm doing and whether I should be doing something else.
I guess this is all cliche. She was barely going to be 22, and no one like that deserves dying so early...
This fully does suck, nobody should die at 22
And it does make you question everything.
I used to have to officiate funerals for kids and it is the worst possible thing, never easy to get over. At some point you just have to let the emotions hit you
Don't push your existing GF away to grieve there is a respectful way to let her into the process
Yeah today I feel much better but I can't help but have my thoughts drift to random times we were together or times I was an absolute shit. I was young but she was the first person that really eroded my cold and dark facade and changed my outlook on a lot of things. We got into a lot of arguments but I really felt amazing when it was good.
It's gonna sting for a while, and you were right. I was able to get my friends to rally with me and let me cry on their shoulders, it made me feel better and I allowed my girlfriend to let me grieve with her. It definitely was hard for her because she skews on the jealous side of things so I could sense it but she tried her best and I appreciated it.
my band mate has depressions and bipolar issues, to the point where he has been admitted to hospital in the past and been out of action for up to 3 months.
this is all before I knew him and we jammed etc. Last week at rehearsals i noticed he was really jacked up and talking my head off, which i put down to the fact that he told me he had had 3 energy drinks that night.
but today i got a message from his friend saying they were worried about him, and if i had noticed anything. I told them what i know, but it seems like its more than what i saw.
anyway...this could go downhill quick...I'm hoping its just some isolated incidences and that his actually fine.
If not...i have no idea how to deal with a situation like this...I'm guess I just let his friends lead and follow them and help any way i can...
samzadgan wrote:my band mate has depressions and bipolar issues, to the point where he has been admitted to hospital in the past and been out of action for up to 3 months.
this is all before I knew him and we jammed etc. Last week at rehearsals i noticed he was really jacked up and talking my head off, which i put down to the fact that he told me he had had 3 energy drinks that night.
but today i got a message from his friend saying they were worried about him, and if i had noticed anything. I told them what i know, but it seems like its more than what i saw.
anyway...this could go downhill quick...I'm hoping its just some isolated incidences and that his actually fine.
If not...i have no idea how to deal with a situation like this...I'm guess I just let his friends lead and follow them and help any way i can...
that sucks man, I have no idea how to help my friends who are addicted to drugs and depressed; I just try to be around for them for social support, I think that's all most people want, just let them know they can count on you to give a fuck.
