neonblack wrote:wfs1234 wrote:I answered a Craigslist "casual encounters" ad and now I feel terrible. I met her at her place. We ate dinner and watched a movie, but once we started cuddling I noticed a horrible smell (it was almost identical to how this pig farm back home smelled (dead, burning pigs and fermented shit)), and the more we cuddled, the stronger it got until I realized it was *clears throat* her.
That pulled me out of the moment and I realized where I was: at the mercy of my sexual frustrations, willing to say and do anything for sex. I was so embarrassed by myself and my actions that I had to leave. She felt horrible about my leaving, and I tried to do everything I could to make her feel better. But I feel like I'm just a terrible person
Nah, youre not terrible. That's just biology man. Apparently the way we perceive someone's smell indicates how biologically compatible you are. So basically, your brain was telling you not to do it because you guys would have messed up pig babies.
But if you wanted to take a chance you could have been like "lets take this to the shower.". There's always the chance she was super depressed and just hadn't showered. But if you're gonna put a casual encounters ad on cl, you better be at least somewhat recently showered.
That's the thing, she had showered and bathed and lotioned and done a whole bunch of personal hygiene stuff yesterday before I came over. Or at least, that's what she said. It was unbelievably bad... Never answering a craigslist personals ad again!
I know these feels. My best friend had cancer when we were both 22. It's terrifying and awful, but the only thing you can do is offer to be there for moral support and hope he gets through it.
